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It is not uncommon to hear the story of a man whose life changed after that DNA testing proves it that he is not the father of the child he thought was his. However, hearing a mother dealing with a similar situation is rare. That’s why it just passed post on Reddit it has many people talking.

A user called ThrowRA-3xbetrayal says that a DNA test shows that her husband is the father of the 2-year-old boy they adopted but is not the biological mother.

The the story started 6 years ago when couples try to conceive but have no luck. The woman was diagnosed with a “medical condition” that meant she would not be able to carry a baby to term, resulting in a partial hysterectomy. The woman, who calls herself “the breadwinner” worked multiple jobs to pay someone to have their child.

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“I still had my ovaries so we started looking at the cost of a surrogate. It’s really expensive! My best friend from college who had and her 2 children, she volunteered to work as our agent to reduce costs.After two unsuccessful IVF cycles, she became pregnant for the third time and. carried a boy to us,” ThrowRA-3xbetrayal wrote.

The couple was more than a month after the birth of a boy and another woman became a bigger part of their lives.

The afflicted woman is comforted.by Liza Summer

“My friend and my husband started talking a lot and sometimes I would come home from work at the weekend to find her already at home when my husband was there ,” wrote ThrowRA-3xbetrayal. “I made it clear that there was nothing wrong and that it was better for him to know my husband better because he was about to carry a child for us. I was glad to have someone who helped us have child.”

But her mother became suspicious because the baby’s eyes were brown while hers and her husband’s were blue.

The mother took the child to the doctor and received sad news. He found out that his son’s blood is B+ while his father is O+ and he is A+. The doctor said it was “naturally impossible” for his son to be given the type of blood his parents had been given.

ThrowRA-3xbetrayal thought the fertility clinic had made a terrible mistake. She did a DNA test and found that her husband was the boy’s father, but not his mother. “Then my husband revealed that he had slept with my friend (the surrogate) several times during the battle to get pregnant with the embryos,” she wrote. ThrowRA-3xbetrayal. “This means that what I thought was our son conceived through IVF and carried by someone else is not my son at all, and in fact, he was conceived the old way , which I will not be able to do.”

The woman says that this sad news felt like a triple betrayal. A woman has decided to divorce her husband and wants to give any parental rights to the child. Her husband, ex-wife and her family all agree that she was wrong to give away the rights of the child she raised for 2 years.

He asked the Reddit forum of AITA to tell him if he was wrong and the community responded with great support, confirming his difficult decision.

A happy little child playing on the beach. by Taryn Elliott/Pexels

The most famous commenter said that he should sue the woman who was the woman’s wife for taking money from him without having a child. “One of the things that bothers me is that you were working extra jobs to pay for the dowry which I think included her medical bills and supporting her financially. I would talk to a lawyer about to sue him for your money back. He knew that if he had sex there was a chance that the child would naturally be his,” they wrote.

Another affirmed the wife’s decision to leave her husband and surrender any parental rights. “You cheated… it’s not yours. I will tell you exactly what I tell the men who post this. It would be nice if you love the baby enough to stay, but if you’re too scared and too damaged to do so, you’re not an A**le to go,” they wrote.

Another pointed out that if a man was in this situation, no one would judge him for giving up his parental rights. “If these roles were to be changed, as a man saying that his wife cheated and had another man’s child, people would have no problem telling him that he has the right to go and has no interest in the child. search,” the reviewer wrote.

If the story ThrowRA-3xbetrayal wrote is true, it’s an incredible tragedy. She fought hard to have a child but realized she was living a lie two years later. So, let’s hope she finds comfort in the hundreds of people who have supported her decision to move on with her life as she shares some good advice on how to move forward.